The Hendricks reveal the blocks to intimacy and happiness in human relationships. They expose problems as opportunities to explore our own blind spots. I have read this book several times over the last few years and give these methods complete credit for the joyous, fulfilling relationship I have had for the last three years. The book shows you how to be honest, take responsibility for yourself, and explore the core perceptions that sabotage your happiness. I have recommended this book to friends more than any other book I have read. If you want to get past your cycles of blame and pain, this is the book for you.
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“If fear is dominant in the relationship you became afraid and so does your partner which stops them looking like a friend, but rather more like an enemy”
Saarah Aal Kasraan read to her husband Hamad ibn `Ateeq the entirety of Soorat Al-Baqarah from her memory on the first night of their marriage. (`Ulamaa Najd by Al-Bassaam)
Ibn ‘Uthaymin: If the woman does not marry in this life, Allah will marry her off in paradise to the one she finds delight in.
(Arkan-ul-Islam, p. 116)