While men want to be trusted, women want caring 

While men want to be trusted, women want caring. When a man says to a woman, “what’s the matter, honey?” with a concerned look on his face, she feels comforted by his caring. When a woman in a similar caring and concerned way says to a man “What’s the matter, honey?” He may feel insulted or repulsed. He feels as though she doesn’t trust him to handle things. 

It is very difficult for a man to different between empathy and sympathy. He hates to be pitied. A woman may say “I am so sorry I hurt you.” He will say “It was no big deal” and push away her support. She on the other hand loves to hear him say “I’m sorry I hurt you.” She then feels he really cares. Men need to find ways to show they care while women need to find ways to show they trust.”

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