Abu al-Dardā (may Allāh be pleased with him) said to his wife:
“إذا غضبت فرضيني وإذا غضبت رضيتك فإذا لم تكن هكذا ما أسرع ما نفترق.”
“If I get angry then please me, and if you get angry I will please you, as if we are not like this, we will separate quickly.”
[Rawdah al-‘Uqalā 1/72]
