Mars and Venus: Marriage, Love & Mercy

Shaykh Riad Ouarzazi

20 Points to Love

  • Exchanging gifts, (It develops love between you two) it does not have to be materialistic.
  • Spend time together. Just you and your wife. (Vise versa)
  • “The look of love”. Just by looking at your wife you should know what she likes.
  • Warm greetings.
  • Praise the wife. Never compare her with someone else. Applies both ways
  • Participate together in the household chorus. Your work is not only outside!!
  • Kind words, they are Sadaqah.
  • Spend time OUT together.
  • Peaceful gatherings.
  • Husband has to be balanced with the YES/NO.
  • Show your interest, support, and care.
  • Change your routine. Surprise her/him.
  • Pamper her/him.
  • Don’t hide your feelings. You should be able to talk to each other (Never in front of the children).
  • Call her/him by her/him beautiful names
  • Don’t talk about your problems before bed.
  • Show THANKS…Jazakallahu Khair
  • Apologize
  • R-E-S-P-E-C-T
  • Contemplate the Seerah.
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